7th November 2012 Washington DC, USA

Why We Wear the Poppy

Sunday marks the ninety-fourth anniversary of the Armistice which ended the First World War.

A soldier holds out a poppy whilst on service in Afghanistan.
A soldier holds out a poppy whilst on service in Afghanistan. Photographer: SAC Andrew Morris

The guns on the Western Front finally fell silent at eleven o’clock on the eleventh day of the eleventh month of 1918 after four years of fighting which had claimed the lives of sixteen million and maimed a further twenty million.  This litany of digits—eleven-eleven-eleven—resonates powerfully in Britain, much as the contemporary shorthand of 9/11 does here in the United States.

And this war, like the US Civil War, profoundly changed British society, shaping what it is today perhaps more than any other event. In the 1930s the writer Arthur Mee coined the term ‘thankful village’ to describe the communities which suffered no military fatalities in the Great War; they numbered just fifty-two out of over sixteen thousand villages in the United Kingdom.

Yet just twenty-one years later, the world was again embroiled in war – one which claimed over sixty million more lives, over two and a half per cent of all mankind at the time. By the time it was over in 1945, Mee’s list of thankful villages was reduced to fourteen.

Today, some sixty nations are enmeshed in conflict.  For my own country, the poppy which grows in Helmand Province, Afghanistan, supplying ninety per cent of the world’s illicit heroin, has become a dark leitmotif of this generation’s war; an unwelcome counterpoint to the paper poppies, symbolic of those that grew between the graves in Flanders’ fields, which we in Britain wear in our button holes at this time of year in recognition of all who die as a consequence of war—men, women and children of all nations—as an emblem of sacrifice, grief and reconciliation.

On Sunday at eleven o’clock, the traffic on Trafalgar Square will stop and the old churches up and down the United Kingdom, some dating back to the Norman Conquest, will echo to services of remembrance.  In each parish across the country, the names of those men and women who have fallen over the past century in the service of the Crown will be read aloud.  We hope that the families of the 435 men and women who have died on operations in Afghanistan, whose comparatively recent anguish will be raw on this day, will nevertheless draw strength from these gatherings.

Soldiers and Marines, Airmen and Sailors will stand in solemn silence for two minutes just as the guns were hushed and will reflect on friends and comrades they have lost and the brutal consequences of man’s inhumanity to man.

Cecil Denholm-Young, an English officer fighting in 1942 at El Alamein, wrote the following lines, entitled Dead German Youth.  Their sentiment speaks eloquently for all of us who have personal experience of killing.

‘He lay there, mutilated and forlorn,

Save that his face was woundless, and his hair

Drooped forward and caressed his boyish brow.

He looked so tired, as if his life had been

Too full of pain and anguish to endure,

And like a weary child who tires of play

He lay there, waiting for decay,

I feel no anger towards you, German boy,

Whom war has driven down the path of pain.

Would God we could have met in peace

And laughed and talked with tankards full of beer,

For I would rather hear your youthful mirth

At stories which I often loved to tell

Than stand here looking down at you

So terrible, so quiet and so still.’

5 comments on “Why We Wear the Poppy

  1. Buster – BZ; excellent, thought provoking and to the point as ever. Hope DC is fun.

    Count our tomorrows:
    On average, day by day…

    …Thirty four thousand…Three hundred…Thirty two todays have passed.
    They grow not old, nor weary nor condemned; we still remember them.

    The same is true for those since gone away:
    Sons…parents…daughters; husbands…wives and lovers;

    Though gone they shine today in our remembrances;
    Not forgotten, ever-loved and close in memory.

    So we at home today, thinking of them, should pray
    That our tomorrows make for better days.

    Aye

    David

  2. Buster, an excellent and thoughtful piece.

    As someone who once served alongside you in the Corps, now an expatriate, and currently working against those with hostile intentions, your reflection of how the past history of the poppy entwines with the world’s current security environment resonates deep. This single and simple symbol unites all of those affected by conflict, bringing us together (even though seperated) in the memory of the fallen who fought to their end for what they believed to be just.

    With respectful memories, Rest In Peace.

    Best regards,

    Daren

  3. Many thanks Buster,

    Eloquently done because not everyone ‘gets it’ do they so, that is all the more reason for telling the story so that more questions might be asked on the back of the facts…

    I stood this evening (Thursday) in the gardens of the British Embassy in Kuwait at a service of remembrance because Sunday the 11th here will be a workday as you know. You will be pleased to know that the gardens were packed with serving and former services personnel, their families and friends and numerous dignitaries from numerous nation states, all of whom ‘got it’ and most of whom wore poppies with pride and gratitude.

    I head up a 6-man team of security SMEs here in Kuwait, nearly all of whom are former services personnel and we will have our quiet moment in our little ‘coffee boat’ on Sunday at 11am regardless – and consider it shared with all those others who ‘get it’.

    As an aside, I never got the opportunity to thank you for your words at HMS Heron in June ’08, when the Viking boys (one of whom was my son) came home to a properly public and joyously noisy reception after a very tough tour. I recall an empathetic and somewhat humbled Brigade Commander telling it like it is when too few brave men come home and this is as good a place as any to thank you for that.

    And I hope this finds you well.

    As ever,

    Keith

  4. A moving tribute, above.

    I’m trying to reach Nick Astbury at the suggestion of Chip Mann. What phone number? Email?

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About Major General Buster Howes

Major General Buster Howes OBE is currently serving as the Defence Attaché at the British Embassy in Washington. Buster was educated at Christ’s Hospital and York and London Universities and…

Major General Buster Howes OBE is currently serving as the Defence Attaché at the British Embassy in Washington. Buster was educated at Christ’s Hospital and York and London Universities and was commissioned into the Royal Marines in 1982.

Initially Buster served as a troop commander in 42 Commando RM, deploying for the first time on operations, in Northern Ireland. After training a recruit troop, he qualified as a Mountain Leader and was then posted to Recce Troop, 45 Commando RM. After a stint as AdC to Major General Training, Reserve and Special Forces RM, he was appointed to the 2nd Division, USMC, as a Regimental Operations Officer (for the First Gulf War). He subsequently commanded Charlie Company, 40 Commando RM; Commando Training Wing at CTCRM; 42 Commando RM (for the Second Gulf War); and 3 Commando Brigade. Buster has worked in personnel policy, in the Fleet HQ; as a planner in the Rapid Reaction Force Operations Staff of UNPROFOR, in Bosnia; and as a strategist in the Naval Staff Directorate, in MOD. He has attended the Naval Staff College, the Higher Command and Staff Course, the Royal College of Defence Studies and the Pinnacle Course. He has served as a Divisional Director for ICSC(L) at the JSCSC, and as COS to Commander Amphibious Forces (CAF). He was Chief Joint Co-ordination and Effects, in HQ ISAD X in Kabul and then Director Naval Staff, in 2007.

In addition, he also served as Head of Overseas Operations in MOD before being appointed Commandant General Royal Marines/CAF in February 2010. Buster commanded Operation ATLANTA, the EU Counter Piracy Mission in the Indian Ocean for 15 months up to 1 August. He is also a member of the Navy Board, Captain of Deal Castle, President of the Royal Marines Mountaineering Club, and Vice President of the RNRM Children’s Charity.